What’s included…
Foundational Practices
Beginners should prioritize clear communication, consent, and safety above all else. Start with approachable, lightweight toys and build trust before moving to more intense play. The most important tools are a “safe word” and open conversation with your partner.
- Honest communication: Before introducing toys, talk openly with your partner about desires, boundaries, and fears. Creating a “Yes, No, Maybe” list can help explore what you are both comfortable with.
- Enthusiastic consent: Consent is an active and enthusiastic agreement that can be revoked at any time.
- Establish a safe word: Choose a word or phrase that can immediately stop the scene if things get too intense or uncomfortable. Common choices include red (stop immediately) and yellow (slow down).
- Start slowly and educate yourself: Approach new toys and sensations with a slow, curious mindset. If you’re drawn to a particular type of play, research it first to understand safety precautions and proper techniques.
Aftercare is the practice of attending to your partner’s physical and emotional needs after a scene has ended. It is a critical part of safe BDSM play, and can involve:
- Cuddling and comforting
- Talking about the experience
- Eating and rehydrating
- General soothing and affection

The submission bench
- Positioning: Correct positioning on the spanking bench is crucial for the comfort and safety of the submissive. Begin by having the submissive lie down on the padded surface, ensuring their weight is evenly distributed to avoid strain on any particular area. The body should be aligned so that the buttocks and upper thighs are easily accessible to the dominant.
- Impact: Focus the impact on the buttocks’ fleshy part, away from the spine or kidneys. Start with gentle taps and gradually increase intensity.
- Stance: For the person delivering the impact, a balanced stance is important for stability and control. Keep feet shoulder-width apart and use the hips to control the movement, not just the arm.
A variety of sanitized accessories to explore and play with together



Experiment and explore in a safe environment. Complete privacy and comfort to be vulnerable and build deep, intimate bonds together.

The premium sex swing
Full height adjustability and 360 degree of rotation. And with the ability to hold up to 800 lbs., you can try out nearly any position or activity you can think of.


The St. Anthony’s cross
As with any BDSM equipment, safety and consent are paramount when using a St. Andrew’s Cross. Here are a few tips:
- Use proper restraints: Ensure they are padded and not cutting off circulation.
- Communicate limits: Always have a pre-scene negotiation, including safe words or signals.
- Check positioning: Make sure the person being restrained is comfortable and not under strain.
- Have aftercare ready: Emotional and physical care after a scene is just as important as the play itself.




